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Monday 7 July, 2008
 22:59 | 13/May/2008 |  17 Comment(s)
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Live-in Relationship....hmmmmm...!!

we 'guess' every1 of u have heard this term at some point of ur lives and we are 'sure' that u have had given it a thought at least once....is it possible..? is it ok..? should i try it..? and many such things must have occured to ur mind at that time..!!

well, its really not 'in' in our country as of now but yes, quite an interesting topic to discuss...isn't it..?

Now, there are a lot of concepts like emotional security, sex lyfe, commitment, finances, kids, family, society etc associated with it....we'll not go into all of them...!!

But there is one point which really struck us...we feel that Live-in is absolutely fine, if and only if, the two persons involved are 101% prepared for surviving its 'FAILURE'..!! 

difference in opinions and habits is part n parcel of every relationship and so are the itches like getting bored, irritated, tired and so on...human nature u know...!!

In an institution like marriage, there are a lot of factors around, which encourage a person to adjust and compromise.....however, in a Live-in, even the slightest misunderstanding might provoke either or both of the partners to escape, there is always an option to start afresh.....

but the point is, are u, in every way ( emotionally, financially, sexually ), strong enuff to start afresh, and if yes, then how many times swthrt...??....perfection never exists u see....!!!

though we dont mind if u can convince Shahrukh for a Live-in ;-) jokes apart, this is jus one aspect....wats ur stand..? share it with us and we'll compile the best comments in a special post on our blog...!!   :-)

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